Relationships are an important part of our life in fact the most important part . It is in relationship that we get to express love, happiness, joy and other beautiful feelings. But now days relationships have become painful and we feel suffocated in them. The condition has become very critical and most of us don’t see an end to this . But there must be a solution to this challenge. So here are a few keys to bring harmony in relationships;
1) Love Unconditionally
Don’t be selfish in relationships , don’t love other’s for selfish reason and don’t put conditions on your love. Learn to love unconditionally, just like a mother loves her child .
2) Communicate well
A lot of disharmony in relationships is just because of bad communication. Always seek first to understand and then seek to be understood . Listen not just the word’s but the feelings as well. Empathize with other's if you want long lasting relationships.
3) Forgive and Forget
Let go off the past hurt , pain, resentment etc. Be easy to forgive and to forget. Don't let your past to ruin your present and future.
4) Don’t Judge
Just don’t put tag’s on other people for example 'they are like this only' or 'they can’t change' or 'they always do this to me' etc etc. Always remember that people change , do give them a chance.
5) Remember the Golden Rule
Don’t do to other’s what you don’t want other’s to do to you . And do to them what you want them to do to you. This simple rule can bring a lot of harmony in relationships.
6) Be Flexible
A lot of times relationships don’t work because people are not ready to adjust. Be flexible and be ready to adjust if you want to bring harmony in the relationships.
7) Be genuinely interested
For wonderful relationships be as enthusiastic about other’s success and well being as you are about yourself. So be genuinely interested in other people and their development.
8) Have unlimited patience
Always remember that people are irreplaceable. So don’t put a limit on your patience while dealing with them. Once you loose them it can be be difficult to bring them back.
9) Always look at the good
Remember no one is perfect , everyone has both good and bad in them . It depends on us what we look at . Looking at the brighter side will empower you and the other person . Also it will motivate them to change for good.
10) Give appreciation
Whenever you get the opportunity to appreciate other’s , go ahead and do that. People feel good when they are appreciated . They feel accepted and worthy .
11) Show gratitude and respect
There are so many things that we can be thankful about. So don’t forget to show your gratitude, because it matters a lot . And it multiplies the thing you are thankful about. Also show respect to other’s perspective , even if they are wrong according to yours perspective.
12) Think Win-Win
Just live above the small thinking of win-loose (for me to win you have to loose), loose-win ( I loose you win) and loose-loose (If I can’t win how can I let you win) . Always think win-win (I am sure that I am going to win and I will help you to do the same). Win-Win thinking will eliminate the feeling of jealousy which destroys relationships .
13) Balance is the key
Don’t overdo and at same time don’t under do in relationships . You should know when to step in and when to step out in a relationship . There is a very thin line between being attached and being insensitive, this is the line of balance . When we live our life in balance we can experience harmony.
14) Don’t argue
Discussions are good but arguing over small issues breaks relationships.
15) Be honest and show integrity
Say what you do and do what you say, this will enable people to trust you. And when trust is the foundation of a relationship, it can go on and on and on . . . . . . . .to eternity .
These are a few keys to have Harmonious Relationships , we hope that you will find them useful and by using them in your life you will be able to to live a happy life.
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